Reader, What would it take for you to live your life with no regrets? Many people are so busy just trying to keep up with their lives that they never stop to consider this question. When they finally have a moment to themselves, the last thing they want to do is evaluate how satisfied they are with their life. They turn to Netflix or bourbon or something else that will let them empty their minds and veg out, so they can muster up the energy to face another day. This cycle is a villain that I...

Reader, Do you know what makes me angry? I know so many people at risk of losing what matters most to them because they are trapped in the unsustainable grind of faith, family, and life. Deep down, they know this smothering grind is unsustainable, but they don't know how to break free. "If not this, then what else?" they wonder. The real deception of this monster called "the grind" is it makes you assume there's something wrong with you. Everyone else seems to be flourishing. Their lives look...

Photo by Brooke Cagle on Unsplash Reader, I had a session recently where my client started things off on a completely unexpected note. "I need you to help me die well," he said. He went on to explain he'd been diagnosed with stage four cancer. The doctors told him he had less than a year to live. Now, for the sake of his wife and his kids, he just wanted to die well. In a situation like that, what are we to do with the concept of our "calling"? We typically think that "calling" means: "my...